Day 21: Love is Satisfied in God
Yesterday’s dare focused on our relationship with God. This chapter stresses that our spouse will never meet all of our damands for two reasons: 1) I am unreasonable at times and 2) my husband is human. I cannot argue with any of those and I am slowly starting to see this. How can my husband possibly live up to all of the unrealistic expectations that I have? I couldn’t even do this. The only person who can fulfill all of my needs is God. I know this intellectually, but I must work on my relationship with God so, I can begin to believe this with all of my body, heart, mind, and soul.
God wants us to know that he can give us inner peace and fully satisfy everyone of our needs if we will only let him. This chapter had several verses from the Bible, but two really stuck out to me. The first is my favorite Bible scripture, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in in every situation, by prayer and petition, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guide your hearts and your in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4: 6-7). The other verse said, “I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” (Philippians 4: 12-13).
TODAY’S DARE : Be intentional today about making a time to pray and read your Bible. Try reading a chapter out of Proverbs each day (there are thirty-one—a full month’s supply), or reading a chapter in the Gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John). As you do, immerse yourself in the love and promises God has for you. This will add to your growth as you walk with Him.
Before going on our trip, I was getting up every morning and praying before my husband Got up. This helped me to start the day with God and I was really enjoying it and getting into a routine. My routine was thrown off from our trip and although I did pray, I only spent that dedicated time with God once while away. I also did not start back up when I first returned. I made excuses about the time difference, but this dare got me started again. I did not do it until later in the evening yesterday, but it was exactly what I needed. I find that I am more sensitive to my husband’s needs and that I am looking for wisdom. I also got back to my daily prayer and study this morning. As I learn to lean on God, I can be a better wife.